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We had a nice discussion about fairytales at book group last night even though some people seem to be awfully vague on the definition of fairytale and kept referring to current children's literature as "well, it's a fairytale to ME" as if that made it okay. Apparently, not everyone continues to read fairytales and folktales as adults, CAN YOU BELIEVE IT? *boggle* Although, I did a little mental inventory of the people in the room and the ones who don't read any "children's" literature at all? Not the ones I hang out with or want to hang out with. Hmmm...

Carol, our hostess, showed us a lovely little book that her grandmother had written and illustrated for her when she was a child. Her grandmother died when Carol was 7, but before that she handwrote all these great stories with stunning watercolor illustrations and Carol still has 6 of the books. She wants to get them published some day. They reminded me a bit of the stuff that Becky and I used to do in junior high. We wrote and illustrated stories, we drew complicated comic series with armies of characters, we filled notebook after notebook with sketches and silly stuff and serious stuff and stuff.

My friend did not cancel on me and we had a good time eating sushi. Because she didn't cancel on me, I've postponed the little talk with her I was planning to have. We made a lunch date this morning for 2 weeks from now, so we'll see. :) Thai food is on the agenda for tonight. I have had dinner in Malmö 3 nights in a row (including tonight) and will be gone part of tomorrow as well. This morning, while brushing the kid's teeth, I stared at them like I hadn't seen them in weeks and had to restrain myself from squeezing them both. On the way from the daycare to the school I was singing silly songs to Martin and he was laughing his head off, and even though we passed several other teachers and parents and kids, I didn't lower my voice or stop singing, and Martin just kept laughing. I kept thinking "this won't last long...someday soon I'm going to be embarassing the life out of him." I've never been one for caring much about being silly in public, but I'm pretty sure my kids won't let me get away with it for much longer.

Happy For: My sister's recent financial windfall, and my brother's move to a new apartment.
Sad For: A colleague and friend whose wife was just diagnosed with malignant breast cancer; the 3rd person in my extended circle to be dealing with this. :(

Hilarious Interview Practice Questions: Are You a Morning Person, or a People Person?
mood: happy
music: XTC—That's Really Super, Supergirl


They're so much fun when they're not so concerned about silliness yet! Of course, they're fun later, too, but it's a different kind of fun. :)

You know, just be prepared for the fact that perhaps you won't EVER embarrass Martin! I always thought my mom was cool, even when the rest of my siblings were trying to walk 500 yards in front or behind her, not to be seen with her! I was so proud she was my mom, even if she was crazy, because it was such a LOVELY crazy. God, I miss her so much, even 12 years later.

Good to hear that your friend came through at last. Maybe it was a little lapse/ very busy or difficult time for her **hope hope that there was a 'good' and finite reason for her lack of consideration**

Yeah!! Hurrah Martin! enjoy that silly Mom as long as you can!

Perhaps "Are You a Morning Person or a People Person" is a question that I shouls ask potential roomies? LOL

Sorry to hear about the friend with breast cancer :(

That's so great that you can be so silly with your kids :) It must be a strange feeling thinking that things are going to change when they become 'teens'. That's almost the million dollar parenting question in a way - how do you keep the 'closeness' and 'relaxed' side of the relationship as they get into the teens. I'd love to think that my kids would say 'love you mum' even when they're smack bang in the middle of difficult years, and could feel as though they could tell me anything. We'll see ... have to have the kids first ;)

Yes, there really are people that don't read children's books! I already owned about 25 children's books before Daisy was even born. I wasn't collecting them for a future child, I was collecting them for me!
An Ikea commercial was just on as I was writing this, and the fellow had a Swedish accent, ... I was wondering if you've picked up some of the Swedish accent?

I have a tall bookshelf FULL of children's books that are mine, although I do allow the kids to read them! :D I also had tons of animated films, some Disney and some others, that are MINE, as well :)

I don't think I have a Swedish accent at all, actually, and I KNOW that my American accent is pretty obvious when I'm speaking Swedish, even though it's not as bad as some of my friends. :)

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