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I'm too sick-at-heart to write much right now. Grief and concern and horror are like giant elephants lumbering around the room. Every time I turn around I'm struck again by how enormous they are, and how they just seem to have come out of nowhere and how they take up ALL THE SPACE around me.

Too many friends going through too many awful things right now.

How can these things be??

I have no answers and my cries to the universe seem to be falling on deaf ears. Perhaps if I try singing instead.
mood: worried


I know these thoughts and feelings. I'm sorry you're having them, too. *love*

Thanks for your nice comment :)

Oh Liz.

I wish you peace.

It is so discouraging when the maelstrom that life can be swirls around ones you care about.

Thank Ann! It's an awful feeling, being so helpless. :(

Big fat hug!

I don't really know what to say. I know when I had my worst year, so did all of my friends. I wonder if we are just coming into that age where people start having health and relationship problems.

I agree...I think partly it's coming into that age, but UGH. It's awful. Big fat hug back!

I don't really know what to say so I hope you will accept a big virtual hug instead.

Always :)

From Megsie

Oh, just know that I am thinking of you and of your friends. (((hugs)))

Re: From Megsie

Thanks Megsie :)


That helpless feeling when your friends are going through hard times is horrible.

There simply are no answers. That's the answer. It's life, not fair at times, without reason.


So true, but ARGH! If I ran the world, things would be different around here! :/

just that you're being there
bearing witness
helping to absorb the horrendous sadness and pain...
your very being there is amazing,
is exactly what you need to be doing.

it will never feel like enough, but it is enormous, and it needed.

with love and an embrace from someone who knows.

Thanks sweetie, that was comforting to hear :)

Sing it loud. Sometimes the Universe is hard of hearing. Belt it out!

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