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All day the sun shone in a blue sky and the smell of lilacs was intoxicating. They've burst into multi-colored firework-blossom bombs of purple and white and lavender beauty. The chestnut trees have candled and the bright multi-hued greens of spring are evening out into that solid summer wall of verdant emerald.

I can't reconcile myself to the fact that a friend is dying.
mood: nauseated
music: Midnight Oil—Beds Are Burning


Sorry, Liza.

A chestnut leaf is the simbol of my home-city. In Malmo also nice.



Liz, I'm sorry you're having to deal with this, and sorry for your friend and friend's family. I hope that spring's miracles help you all.

There's no way to deal with that really.. :(


Many hugs and prayers. It just sucks.



Just want you to know that you are in my heart,in my prayers and my thoughts- and your friend also. Love, Lizardmom

Sending hugs for you. It can be harder when everything is bursting into new life to understand you're losing someone. I lost a dear dear friend in December and it just isn't easy. Love to you.


I can't believe it either. It feels so hugely unfair. Hugs.


So sad, these times.


Hugs from this part of the world as well. I'm so sorry you have this sadness in your life right now.

Sometimes the fact that the beauty pangent simply continues despite the tragedies of our lives seems both insulting and incomprehensibles. That "stop all the clocks" feeling.

Thinking of you and your friend, Liz.


It must be difficult, the pull between the abundance in life and the devastation, the muddled in between that your heart carries. Here is my wish for you: your heavy heart is lifted like the fluff from a cotton wood tree and carried into the wandering wind bringing contentment. This contentment, this joy will bless the friend you love and give peace.

That's my wish for you.

it's very hard to find words for someone who is dying soon. strength to you!

I'm so sorry.

Shoot! Nope. Not an easy one. shit.


I haven't written yet but I have been thinking about you and your friend. *hugs*

I cannot get my head around the same concept.


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