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I feel stuck. In almost every way, just now. I can't seem to write about anything until I come unglued. But I don't know what it is that will pull me out of this. Maybe nothing can pull me out of it. Maybe it's ME that has to do the pulling. And maybe what's keeping me stuck is the fact that I don't know what will happen if I pull. In the meantime, talk amongst yourselves.
mood: thoughtful
music: nothing, just me.


Ugh. I hope it all resolves soon.

I hope it's just one of the usual downs and that I'm heading back up soon.

From Megsie

I have been stuck before as well. In fact, I am usually stuck. And it sucks. Don't pull until you are ready. And, take care of YOU FIRST one day, like maybe tomorrow. Maybe, you need to be the one who is taken care of for a change.

If I were closer, I would be so happy to make dinner for you, and bring you flowers. And maybe just give you a great big hug.

I'll send one your way right now!

Hope this weekend gives you a little bit of peace? An hour? xoxo

Re: From Megsie

Hugs always help! And yes, a little peace was had and it helped, too. :)

Hugs, hot chocolate, sushi, massages, oodles of time for reading, getting outside for a walk every day, and a good things list at the end of each day, no matter how small the good things are. They are there. Yes they are.

Sorry you feel stuck, Liz. You will get unstuck in time. Only you know whether you need to pull or wait to pull. In the meantime, pamper yourself. We will wait for you. ANd miss you dearly.

You are right, the good things lists really HELP. I'm trying, I am. :) Thanks so much for your encouraging words...they really make a difference.

You are very welcome, Liz. Always.

You're making me verklempt!

If you figure out what or how to pull out of it, let me know.

Ha! I will :) Though it always seems to catch me by surprise...every time.

Even stuck you retain your ability to express yourself in a way that grabs the reader. I'm absolutely certain that you will work out your stuck parts. You are simply the kind of woman who takes action when action is needed but who does so in a well-considered way.

You have much more faith in me than I have in myself. How humbling.

Sending some orchids (or orchid photos) your way! Check out my latest post...Hope you get unstuck soon!

How lovely! Thank you :)

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