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We have been asked to cat-sit for our across-the-street neighbors this weekend, but due to allergies and preference we will be taking care of the cats in their house instead of bringing them over to ours. Cats seem to be much more place-sensitive when it comes to this kind of thing; dogs, it seems, are more particular to people.

It's embarrassing to admit I can't remember the wife's name. She's really nice, and I know her husband is named Håkan and her little boy is named Jonathan. The cats are named Nadja and Alice and they are simply lovely, and obviously loving. The family is going to Gotland for Easter so we'll go over each day and spend some time playing with the cats (as well as filling up food bowls and cleaning litterboxes; no great hardship).

She came over today to fetch us so we could meet the cats, get the instructions, etc., and we spent about 15 minutes at the house, while the kids played with the cats on the staircase, and the wife (Lisa?) showed me where everything was. The whole conversation was in Swedish, and she was really talkative and friendly :) As we were leaving, I said to her, "Ha det så bra i Gotland!", meaning "Have a great time in Gotland!"

As we crossed the street, Karin said, "Mom, don't get mad, but just so you know, when you talk about Gotland it's an island, so you don't say i, you say . In other words, it's not in Gotland, it's ON Gotland.

"Well kids," I said, "You know, my Swedish is NEVER going to be as good as yours's about as good as it gets and will probably be at this level for the rest of my life."

My son looked at me. "Aren't you doing what you are always telling US never to do?" he said.

"What do you mean?" I asked.

"You always tell us not to stop ourselves by saying 'I can't' and you're doing it yourself."

Drrr. How embarrassing.

And how thrilled I am to hear the message went home!
mood: impressed
music: REM—Losing My Religion

From Megsie

Ah. Yes. Don't you love it when they get it?! Now they don't have any excuses anymore for saying "I Can't!"

Nice that you lose the dog and gain a cat (or two...). Keeps your animal fix completely in tact.

xo to you!

Re: From Megsie

2 cats AND a dog, since London is supposed to be coming for the weekend, too! Almost as good as having our own! :D

That is lovely that the message sunk in for them! :)

If we had a pet, I would surely be happy for you guys to be living across the street. :)

And we'd be happy to oblige by pet-sitting for you! :)


That is impressive! And really nice that they keep encouraging your Swedish. My daughter does the same thing with Czech, and I hope she'll keep pushing me too as she gets older.

I hate it when they correct me, but I have to suck it up since I do it to them about English all the time :D

You probably won't forget that one again, so maybe Martin (and therefore you, originally) is right, you can still improve.

haha! I don't know...I DID know this, but forget it very easily when I'm talking!

Ha! I would get that wrong in ENGLISH! I always say things like, "Have fun in Jekyll!" It's an island, not a town. *sigh* Your kids would slice me up and serve me cold! :P

I would say it as IN in English too! It's a PLACE! You are IN a place, not ON it, even if it's an island. Hrmph.


What awesome kids! (But you already knew that of course!)


They ARE pretty awesome :)

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